Tulsi ke Dohe · Dohavali
Tulsi ke Dohe Doha 23 meaning
rosh na rasana kholiai, baru kholia taravari
sunat madhur parinam hit, bolia bachan bichari
रोष न रसना खोलिऐ, बरु खोलिअ तरवारि।
सुनत मधुर परिनाम हित, बोलिअ बचन बिचारि॥
Don't open your mouth in anger; it would almost be better to draw a sword. Speak thoughtfully, with words that are sweet to hear and good in their result.
What it means
Wounds from angry words often last longer than physical ones. When you're furious, stay silent until you can think. Then say what is kind to hear and helpful in the long run.How it helps in real life
- When you are angry: Your teenage son scraped the car against a wall. Before saying anything, check he's safe, then wait till morning to discuss it.
- In love & marriage: Your partner forgot to pay the electricity bill again and you're boiling. Stay silent for ten minutes, then calmly agree on reminders.
हिंदी में अर्थ
गुस्से में ज़बान मत खोलो, इससे तो तलवार खोलना बेहतर है। सोच-समझकर ऐसे वचन बोलो जो सुनने में मीठे और परिणाम में हितकारी हों।
गुस्से में कहे शब्दों के घाव लंबे समय तक रहते हैं। क्रोध में चुप रहें, फिर सोचकर ऐसा बोलें जो मीठा भी हो और भला भी करे।
Spoken by Tulsidas.
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